Relationships

Relationships are very important in a person’s daily life. They’re not mandatory- if you’re not in a relationship, you won’t die, but you’ll feel lonely and sad; and this is one of the aspects of a relationship which falls under emotions and affection. 

Pros (A healthy relationship):

- Having a companion and feeling secure

- The feeling of being loved. Knowing you have someone who cares about you is amazing and you feel like you can talk to them about anything.

- Whenever you are troubled or lonely and insecure, you always have a partner who will make you feel the opposite. You can always rely on him and talk just about anything.

- Having many things in common is a bonus

- Having your partner be a best friend to you. Normally, this is how a real, true and deep relationship would start- it would start with being best buds.

- You also learn a lot about yourself by spending time with the person you love

- Sharing life’s burden and being happy in every breath you take. 

Cons (Unhealthy relationship):

- Long distance relationships are unhealthy and you should not be in one if that’s the case.

- Jealousy may become an issue- this is an extremely uncomfortable feeling.

- If a certain family member doesn’t like your partner- that may be a huge issue as well.

- Cheating and no trust

- Sometimes your partner may be lazy to do something for you- or get lazy to do just about anything regarding hard work

- Bad attitude and being passionate about hating everything can get serious

- Fights & arguments 

As you can see, relationships can be healthy and fun- but also unhealthy and boring. This is just one fragment of a relationship’s factors. Sexual abuse and rape are dangerous and can make you feel reckless. Threats and somebody forcing you to do something that is against your will is extremely over the line and unhealthy. What can you do to stop this? Who will you tell and how will you tell them? First of all, you should tell someone (family, a guardian, a teacher or a therapist) as soon as possible before it’s too late. They will surely be able to help you in any case of an emergency.